Mobile Macos + Not Your Mobile = Unnecessary Drama

Why is it, curiosity kills the cat? 

It does not just kill the poor pussin’, it kills friendships, budding relationships, dreams, hopes, re-kindled beating hearts. 

All due to morbid curiosity…..for what end result? To what end? 

Now personally, I am very sure of the manner in which I handle situations, may not be the same as others, friends, family, blood relatives, but, it is how I cope with it…. And that matters to me. If I am able to cope with it, without walking out of a situation with bloody hands…. (Praises to the most high). This means I am doing ok…. And therefore, I will not change the structure in which I compute shitty situations.  With that being said and stated upfront……. 

A personal item such as, let’s say, someone’s mobile. For some people, they may find it interesting to test to see whether someone is being honest with them to go through and find aligning evidence to prove them to be honest or not. Mobile Maco, it is unnecessary.

These mobile maco’s might pick up someone’s phone to go through the listing of their friends to muddy the waters of someone who has done them wrong. An emotional act that has long term ripples…. Unnecessary …. Again I ask, to what end? What result? What morbid pleasure do you seek? Instead of this, a safe way is to look at some gross porn...borrow some blues from a friend... grab a hand towel and some lotion if your are a guy... if you are a chick... wash your hands for crying out loud and sit on your porch.... 

For that spur of the moment reaction when the persons mobile is resting on the table, couch, bed head… I have no idea. But, within the longitude and latitude of your line of sight, left unmanned by the owner, due to the level of comfort forged between both parties, why…… oh why…… would you unlock their phone and go through their personal items.

As close as people are, there are something’s that are PERSONAL…. Ie. For the owners eyes only. 

As for myself, I, as with everything else, I DON’T give a shit, what is on YOUR phone, where YOUR phone is, what YOU are storing, who’s dick is labeled (Thursday Night Fun). I don’t care. Because, this is.... say it with me.... YOURS! 

Therefore, it is NOT MINE!! 

This brings me to a tangent, where parents need to reinforce, what is NOT YOURs you do NOT touch... Come on parents... Don't spare the rod and spoil the child... 

People can be lying straight in my face about something and the “truth” can be stored on their phones. To be very clear, I DON’T give a shit. I tend to take what is said to me at face value, I dig for nothing more, I care for nothing less from what you tell me. 

I go with the flow.

Probably this manner of handling situations became second nature with my experiences when it comes to these bloody mobiles, but, that basic characteristic of a friend, or attribute of a friendship, even a relationship….. There are lines and boundaries that should never be crossed. NEVER! 

I genuinely don’t believe people or the public can have numerous questions and concerns on their mind and believe they can find the answer in someone’s mobile. I genuinely do NOT think so. If per say, you do need some clarity, just ask. If the answer is not what you want to hear, it is YOUR responsibility to deal with it. If it is the answer you wish to hear, then kudos….. 

Let's just go out on a limb here and say someone hacked into my mobile and sent an email to someone that was unnecessary.  If this is true.... Darling, you f**ked yourself... never me... 

With that being said, moving back on track.... *clears throat*

But, as insecure as the mobile maco may be, to save, a friendship, a relationship, a heart….. Don’t for once think it is OK to go into someone’s mobile looking for reassurance.

That can be the “finish line” for most and they may not even have a clue.

You need to check on your self-esteem or a Psychiatrist in West Shore general. 

Shit Happens, Deal with it…..

Singh