YOU CAN DO BETTER... CAN WE??? REALLY???

These are words from Drakes new song;

“The woman that I would try is happy with a good guy.”
“I am jus’ sayin’ you can do better.”

It has me thinking, are these the thoughts people really go through? Only when they have had a few drinks too many it hits them how lonely they are? Chat with their friends, with their peeps and realize how they have focused their attention on fruitlessly on everyone and everything except the one person that would ensure they are comfortable, loved, happy, fulfilled, driven..(this is all dependent on if you are a self absorbed asshole, in which, I know a few of them who put on this amazing facade) wow, sorry so went off on a tangent.. sorry.. back on track people.. ..*clear throat* This person pushes a positive change in your life, but what stops us? All this is due to what?

The barrage of excuses that I have heard so far from all of the self absorbed assholes that I know... (Wave guys, you know who you all are... one love)...

Firstly, I get, I have commitment issues, now help me understand, you don’t mind, getting into the chicks pants and doing the horizontal mambo where you can never tell who pops off by accident then you get tied in completely to this individual, but yet you have commitment issues... Yup, I have jerk marked on my face with a permanent Sharpie.

Secondly, I heard this one that made me laugh, my parents had a rough marriage. What?? Huh? Are you kidding me man? This is too much, I can’t help myself but laugh. Yes, well, firstly, we are living in the same era as your parents, we are going through the same situations and issues like your parents, and to top it off... oh snap.... we ARE your parents. Steups... I don’t think I could have not had an expression on my face.

Thirdly, (hear this one guys) *clear throat*, I feel pressured. No brother you are just narcissistic. You are an old ass man or woman, if you don’t want to be with anyone then don’t bitch about it when you get inebriated.
I understand there will always be the one that got away and instant concrete feel in your shoes that instant and someone put fast stick glue in your mouth. But come on, it is never too late to do something about it. Just be loud and bold, go and say what you have to say. What is the worst that can happen? You can get turned down?? Blasted??? Well that is life and at least you will know where the person is coming from.

If they don’t give you an answer and have you dancing to their tune in the grey area then get up and move to hell on... It makes no sense sticking around there. You will be nurturing a breed of asshole that we don’t want our future driven thinkers to come around. Nip it in the bud....
The words to this song, I know for a fact many people go through this. Just why not do something about it. Take the bulls by the horns, and if you bitch about not having hands then you may not need to grow hands but develop some testicular fortitude.

Laters PEEPS!!!!!
Elvis has left the building....